This is clam chowder for the soul. Chicken soup is warm, inviting…clam chowder is no glamour and if you can stomach the ingredients it’s super tasty.
I wanted to add to the “You want them to be happy” part. This includes whether they are with or without you. If they break up with up you and you are suddenly focused on their demise then the relationship had more to do with what they provided you than their individual happiness and what is best for them.